Engaging in BDSM calls for an open mind and a lot of talk and research. Depending on your preferences, it can also require some sex toys. Given the nature of BDSM (complementary but unequal roles), particular tools are sometimes not just an option but a necessity.
Even when they are not necessary, sex toys for women and men alike can enhance your BDSM play. If you want to know how, stay tuned and learn how to enjoy the experience to the fullest.
BDSM Toys: Designed to Please
The market offers a broad selection of different adult toys, depending on the kink you are into. BDSM is not only about pain. In fact, unless you engage in sadism and masochism, a BDSM scene usually does not involve it at all.
For instance, bondage toys are designed to restrain a person’s movement. The most common examples are handcuffs and ropes, although the market has expanded so much that it now includes harnesses, such as sex swings, as well.
Dominance and submission, on the other hand, is more about exerting psychological than physical domination. Common toys for this kink include blindfolds, ball gags, and penis cages.
Whichever kink interests you, rest assured that you will find appropriate toys in any sex store, whether it may be a traditional one or online. BDSM toys are designed to accentuate the division of roles that is at the concept’s. Aside from that, they help please both the active and the passive participant.
Great Addition to Your BDSM Play
Let’s say you are a submissive person who wants their partner to limit their movement during sex. What do you think would be more effective — having them hold you down with their hands or being restrained by a rope or a pair (or two) of handcuffs? We know you know the answer to that question.
Aside from ropes and whips, which are pretty basic, the market provides a wide range of more extreme sex toys. Cock cages, anal hooks, and penis plugs have all found their way to kinky people’s bedrooms. After all, do you think they would exist if they were not serving their purpose?
In case you are not yet convinced that owning a collection of sex toys will allow you to explore BDSM more thoroughly, stay tuned. We are about to present some sex toys that offer a wide range of possibilities when it comes to kinky sex play. There is something for everyone’s taste, we assure you of that. The following kinky toys are as simple as when you need to use a vibrator when travelling or at home.
Cock Cages
If you are a submissive man, you may find male chastity rather exciting, despite the controversy it causes. Wearing a cock cage is the ideal way to demonstrate your devotion to your mistress or master. Letting them have the key to the device (and your sexual pleasure) is arousing on an entirely new level.
Not only does a cock cage prevent a man from having sex and masturbating, but it also prevents him from getting an erection. However, that does not mean that every sexual activity is excluded. Teasing is an essential element of BDSM, and your keyholder knows that.
Once locked, a device can stay on for as long as the two of you decide. The longer you are in chastity, the longer the foreplay will last. Some people find the removal of a cock cage rather liberating (both figuratively and literally).
Sex Swings
If you are looking into methods of bondage that differ from standard rope or handcuffs, a sex swing may be perfect for you. Not only does it suspend you, thus, restraining your movement, but it also allows you to experiment with different sex positions. If there is a position you have always wanted to try but found it too challenging, it is time to get a sex swing!
The market offers a wide range of harnesses, depending on your affinities and requirements in terms of space. If you want yours to swing in different directions (and possibly spin 360 degrees), a roof-mounted swing is for you. However, if the construction work its installment requires makes you uncomfortable, you can opt for a door swing or the one with stands instead. The latter takes up more space, but you can store it in your closet or under your bed. The possibilities are endless — you can even take some swings with you when you go on a trip. In addition, you don’t need to be limited to your sex swings. In fact, you can incorporate sex whips into the picture like those presented on an article published by Refinery29.
Penis Plugs
Did you know that there was an alternate way to please a man? Traditional masturbation and penetration are fantastic, but prostate stimulation is underrated. Prostate massagers have grown in popularity over the past several years. However, they are not the only toys you can use to stimulate your prostate.
Penis plugs or sounds are sex toys meant to be inserted through your urethra. Normally, they significantly differ from prostate massagers and butt plugs in terms of design. They are thin and have a ring that stays outside of your penis.
Thanks to the growth of the sex industry, sounding has become a hit, although it was previously common in medical circles. The method is also used to expand the urethra prior to genital piercing, which you can now also include in your sex routine!
Anal Hooks
Finally, we present to you the most extreme sex toy on our list — an anal hook. If you are into predicament bondage, you may have already tried it. In case you have not, its description can either put you off or turn you on — there is no in-between.
Although the name is pretty self-explanatory, the purpose of an anal hook may confuse you. The toy has a ball on one end (the one that goes into the anus) and a loop on the other. Once it is in the submissive person’s body, the dominant can tie a rope through the loop or put their finger in it to balance between the receiver’s feeling of pleasure and pain.
If anal hooks have sparked your interest, you need to be careful with them. They are not like standard anal toys, even though they have the same purpose as them. Namely, if you get carried away, a pleasurable anal hook experience can turn into a quick visit to the emergency room. So don’t forget to use your safe word if you feel like something could go wrong!
Parting Words
In conclusion, sex toys can turn a pleasurable BDSM scene into an otherworldly experience. Once you decide on your preferences, do your research and choose your product from the broad selection of options that exist on the market.