How to Record the Perfect Sex Tape
Did you ever fantasize about being a porn star? The thought of being filmed and watched while having sex is quite arousing, don’t you agree? If you feel the same way, there’s a simple way to make your fantasy a reality — by filming a homemade porn video! And here’s how to do it right.
Why Are We Obsessed With Filming Ourselves Having Sex?
You’ll find plenty of amateur sex tapes if you visit some of the most popular porn sites. We can easily come to the conclusion that people obviously enjoy filming themselves having sex. But the question is — why is that? Why are we so much into making homemade porn?
And there’s no one simple and straightforward answer. People do it for various motives and reasons, and some of them are pretty straightforward. For example, maybe they enjoy keeping memories of their most pleasurable moments. That way, they can always return and relive them by simply watching the tape.
But in other cases, making homemade sex tape can be a turn on for some people. Maybe they love watching themselves being a porn star in their own movie. Or, it can also have something to do with exhibitionism, especially if they put it online.
After all, this can be a fun way to explore your sexuality. Making a sex tape with your partner requires a lot of communication, trust, and, most importantly, consent.
Consent Is Important
Just because you like something and find it normal doesn’t mean that everybody thinks and feels the same about it. Taking your camera out during sex without warning is an easy way to get dumped! So, try talking with your partner about it instead.
If they don’t feel like doing it, respect it and don’t be pushy. Maybe they just need more time to start trusting you. But if they’re up for it and gave you consent, you should discuss how you want to do it in the first place.
Is it going to be a video of you just having sex, or something more kinky and exotic? Communicating it will help you to understand each other’s motives and interests. You want everyone to feel comfortable — it’s the only way to make a sex tape you’ll enjoy watching afterward.
Prepare the Set
When you’re making a video of any kind, the setting plays an important role. If you’re doing it at home, you should definitely clean the room. You don’t want to film a sex tape in the kitchen filled with dirty dishes, right?
It’s a good idea to put out things you’re going to use before turning on the camera. In case you’re going to play with some sex toys, place them somewhere you’ll be able to reach them. That way, you can focus on filming a sex video and avoid distractions and awkward situations.
And if you feel like it, you can even decorate the room where you’re filming. Maybe you want to light some candles or put red sheets on the bed. Or, in case you’re doing a kinky scene, you can make your room look like a dungeon with chains, whips, and such. And you can even film a sex tape in your basement, bathroom, or backyard!
Either way, the decoration of the room will help you create a perfect atmosphere and enjoy the experience even more.
Camera Angles
Every director needs to find the perfect angles when filming a movie. And in this case, you and your partner are directors. So, you may want to try out different angles before you start recording for real. Think about how you want it to be filmed, and talk with your partner about it.
The light is of crucial importance as well. The room shouldn’t be too dark — you want to be able to see the video you made, don’t you? So, if both of you feel comfortable with it, keep the room as bright as possible. And it’s an even better idea to do it in daylight.
Film making demands a lot of work and organization if you want to do it perfectly. And this stands for homemade porn as well. Luckily, you can always share the work with your partner. Again, communication is of crucial importance here!
Getting Into It
In case you want to be fully prepared, you can also write a script. That way, you’ll feel more confident about the whole thing. Also, you can go through it and try it out a few times before starting. But it’s not a big deal if you improvise now and then. Don’t let details like that to distract you.
Once you have done all the work (screenplay, setting, camera angles, light), you can finally start filming. If it’s your first time, you may feel a bit awkward in the beginning. But don’t give up right away — that feeling will probably pass soon enough. Start with something you are more comfortable with, though. For example, you don’t have to film a rough homemade anal video on your first try.
Maybe you’ll eventually get turned on by the thought of being filmed. But if it still makes you feel nervous, stop thinking about the fact that you’re being filmed. Just relax, and simply enjoy the experience. Try acting natural, and avoid looking directly at the camera.
Protecting Your Sex Tape
There’s absolutely nothing wrong keeping sex tapes to relive those exciting moments. But, making and keeping homemade porn comes with certain risks. And if you’re not willing to take them, you may want to reconsider doing it in the first place.
There’s always a risk, even the slightest one, your computer will get hacked. And not to mention a possibility someone will enter your online accounts by force, without your consent. For these reasons, it’s better to keep private videos on a USB or some other similar device.
And there’s one more thing you should keep in mind — “revenge porn” is punishable by law in many countries. Uploading sex tapes online to hurt someone isn’t just messed up — it’s also a criminal offense.
But we all know that it still happens all the time. So, don’t do this sort of thing with the person you can’t trust. And when you decide to make a sex tape with someone you know and love, keep it safe, just in case.